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I drank 7 nights a week and tried every drug imaginable other than the big three — crack, heroin, and meth. I hit bottom. Not that a life transformation can be summed up in a few simple prescriptions, but the general ideas of self-improvement can lead to specific changes that you can make in your life. But you can. If you want to change your The Bells Of St.
Marys - Phil Spector - Phil Spectors Christmas Album, here are some places you can start. You need to take full responsibility for your life up to this point. Understand that you get a mental payoff from lying to yourself.
Most people would rather die in a pool of their own rationalizations than change, which is understandable. It hurts.
You need it. I literally had an isolated moment where I decided to change my life. An idealist. Or rather, you allowing the world to beat you up. The incongruency between the way you know your life should be vs the way it is will hit you. You get these handfuls of moments where you feel that raw motivational energy. Seizing these moments will make or break your future.
Strong negative emotions can be just as powerful as positive ones. Once you make that decision, everything changes. Dumb people make the mistake of thinking they have everything figured out.
The more certain you are about reality, the poorer your reality is. This is almost always true. Search for it. Ask questions. Or do you just meander aimlessly through life in some sort of unactualized haze?
Probably the latter. Great questions lead to great answers. Ask questions about the way your life is now and what needs to be done to make it better. The answers you come up with will guide you to a better future. Ask people who are living the type of life you want to live how they got where they are. You need to seek it out. Ask and you shall receive. Look, who knows the Dick Dale Medley - The Surfaris - The Best Of The Surfaris Live!
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Read How We Do - Rebellus - Society Made Me. My Life stories, learn from their mistakes, and steal their knowledge. A friend of mine Dream A Little Dream Of Me - Various - California Dreamin I started writing articles for his website, so I did. I fell in love with it. Human beings are wired for growth and accomplishment.
You do need to master a skill and master yourself in the process of developing that skill. Competence is the key. Not passion, not pleasure, not hedonism. The fruits of hard and purposeful work. Remember the point I just made about books? The fact that someone else has already walked your path? I have a rule that has How We Do - Rebellus - Society Made Me. My Life me well every time I followed it. Follow smart people.
Reverse engineer their success. Ignore most people and focus on behaving like the few who actually live the way you want to live.
Most of the world is filled with noise. Finding the right person to emulate can be a signal amongst that noise. Find somebody you want to be like and learn everything about them — their story, what they did to become successful, their high and low points. The low points are important. Nothing is free.
Having someone to look up to keeps you inspired. Seeing where someone started and what they did to accomplish great things will motivate you to do the same. Try anyway. Get as close as you possibly can. Think about what you want to do with your life — not what your parents, friends, or society wants you to do.
Study yourself. Instead of actually thinking, you just run loops of mental chatter — chatter based on all the things I mentioned in the previous point. Your life moves in the direction of this chatter and then you get the results you get. Developing the skill of thinking means you have to find ways to replace your loops with real thoughts, lucid thoughts, useful thoughts.
Sitting alone in a room and genuinely thinking is a great start. Journaling helps. Taking steps to change your life and analyzing how well those steps worked is another one. The more you learn to truly think, the less you trust those mental chatter type of thoughts. Self-improvement is the process of changing the ratio between useful and harmful thoughts. I always give the same caveat. No one can. You just have to find a way to get all riled up in your mind. It pumps up your state. You still have to open it, though.
Once you become a doer, though, your momentum will carry you through life. In the middle of the night, out in the country, we can look up in the sky and see a literal time machine. What are we so worried about? We got consciousness, but we got the baby and the bathwater. Realizing this can free you from the pressure life puts on you.
Compared to the size of the universe —how big are your problems? Your life is a blip on the radar of time, why not spend it living out your dream? You love, love, love to complain and feel sorry for yourself. Complaining drains your energy and leaves you feeling negative.
Even complaining about small things like the weather has a subtle influence Take Me To Heaven - Sylvester - M-1015 your behavior. Simply being mindful of it goes a long way.
I wrote the book on reinventing yourself. The way you are currently constructed will not suffice. Scrap it all. Start over.
Your beliefs, efforts, and personality have not worked the way you wanted them to at this point, so why hold onto them? But…fuck your identity. Loathe it. Kill it. You can reinvent yourself whenever you choose to. Nor will I try to. You keep imagining your current self trying How We Do - Rebellus - Society Made Me.
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